update linux wheel builds

Summary:
* Add PyTorch 1.10 + CUDA 11.1 combination.
* Change the CUDA 11.3 builds to happen in a separate docker image.
* Update connection to AWS to use the official `aws` commands instead of the wrapper which is now gone.

Reviewed By: patricklabatut

Differential Revision: D33235489

fbshipit-source-id: 56401f27c002a512ae121b3ec5911d020bfab885

packaging/linux_wheels/inside.sh

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@ declare -A CONDA_CUDA_VERSIONS=(
 #    ["1.8.1"]="cu101 cu102 cu111"
 #    ["1.9.0"]="cu102 cu111"
 #    ["1.9.1"]="cu102 cu111"
-    ["1.10.0"]="cu102 cu113"
+    ["1.10.0"]="cu102 cu111 cu113"
 )
 
 
@@ -58,6 +58,13 @@ do
 
         for cu_version in ${CONDA_CUDA_VERSIONS[$pytorch_version]}
         do
+            if [[ "cu113" == *$cu_version* ]] && [[ $SELECTED_CUDA != "$cu_version" ]]
+            #       ^^^ CUDA versions listed here have to be built
+            # in their own containers.
+            then
+                continue
+            fi
+
             case "$cu_version" in
                 cu113)
                     export CUDA_HOME=/usr/local/cuda-11.3/