[deps] Update pyproject.toml and requirements (#9714)

Co-authored-by: Yaowei Zheng <hiyouga@buaa.edu.cn>

.github/workflows/tests_npu.yml

@@ -58,8 +58,9 @@ jobs:
       - name: Install dependencies
         run: |
           uv venv
-          uv pip install torch-npu==${{matrix.pytorch_npu}}
-          uv pip install -e ".[dev]"
+          uv pip install -r requirements/npu.txt
+          uv pip install -e .
+          uv pip install -r requirements/dev.txt
 
       - name: Install node
         run: |